Premarital Counseling

Here is one testimony from a couple I worked with in premarital counseling sessions:

“We met with Gay Lee to have our pre-marital session, which we highly recommend any couple partake in, no matter the status and duration of your relationship. It was the single most important thing we did. We enjoyed learning what made us work and took away a better appreciation for ourselves as individuals and each other as a couple. As insightful as the process was, Gay Lee made it enjoyable and personable, we wanted to get married the very next day.” –Txu and Chris


Many engaged couples do not think that they need a pre-marital counselor. After all, you are in love, right? Wrong! The time to meet with a counselor is before problems surface. 

What do we do in Pre-marital counseling?

I will provide you with a Myers-Briggs type inventory.  Then, together we will talk through your results.  The inventory offers you a brief sketch of your personalities.  Using that as our springboard, I will ask you about your perceived responsibilities in a married relationship. We  will talk some, too, about your families of origin and what you want to carry forward into your own family.  Finally, we will discover together how you might work through differences and disagreements in an atmosphere of love and respect. I hold premarital counseling sessions in my home or yours, so that conversations are private.  I can also meet with you virtually.   I usually offer three premarital counseling sessions in one hour segments.

Contact Gay Lee at 434-409-3324 or gaylee [at] weddingpreacherforhire [dot] com to find out more about premarital counseling and whether it’s right for you.

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