So, you are you in a same sex relationship. And, more than that, perhaps you are thinking of getting married. Maybe better not to dally. Read on.
The Situation
A couple of months ago, I married a couple who was … Read More
Counseling
YOUR Financial Future
Dear Engaged Couple-
I have been in recent conversation with an investment advisor at Wells Fargo. He has a wealth of knowledge and, good new for you, he has promised to send me periodic information/advice that I can then pass … Read More
The average wedding price tag
Dear Engaged Couple-
I read a disturbing article a couple of weeks ago. According to new information available by The Knot, the average wedding last year had a price tag of $31,000. That’s not disturbing information all by itself, of … Read More
What Actually Makes for Happiness
Dear Engaged Couples—One of the happiest times in a person’s life is when that person is engaged and about to embark on a new life with someone they love and who loves them back. Nothing new here, right? However, … Read More
The Public Eye
Dear Engaged couple-I have officiated at quite a few weddings at this point in my career. They can be nerve-wracking. One of the things that can make them nerve-wracking for the major participants, the bride and groom, is the fact … Read More
Covenant
Dear Engaged Couple— This is a serious blog about a serious topic—marriage. When I officiate at a religious wedding (as opposed to a secular wedding), as I do about 50% of the time, I use the word covenant, to refer … Read More
An Article about Money and Marriage
Dear Engaged Couples—
Last week I read a Dear Abby article that has given me pause. It’s an article about money and marriage. The person writing to Abby, a man referring to himself as “Wondering in Washington,” bemoans the fact … Read More
Money and Marriage
Dear Engaged Couples—Anxiety in marriage often comes from money woes. Historically money is the issue that couples fight about most. I’m not sure the rise of dual income marriages (and most are, today, even in families with small children) makes